Not Advised….

“Not advised”, “Not recommended”…. I think I have heard words like these so many times since I have been pregnant!

Allan has left with his buddies and gfs to the The Water Lodge in Indonesia for the long public weekend… Whilst, me – I am at home!! Originally, I was going too until they (the Water Lodge) advised that it wasn’t suitable for a pregnant lady to attend and they didn’t want to take any responsibility should anything happen… Ummm… I suppose, it’s to cover their backsides? I could have put their advice to one side and been a rebel and still went for it… But, I suppose I should be responsible! What if something were to happen, the speedy access to the nearest hospital is not so convenient and near, not to mention the transportation to the Water Lodge is not really ideal for me…

But I feel so rebellious – maybe I’ll surprise them and turn up there!! I keep looking at their website and thinking to myself – how bad can it be?!?!?! It just looks so fun… I suppose – it’s not the actual location – it’s the company! But don’t worry, even if I want to – Mama would make sure I stay put!!!

So here I am, being a good mother-to-be and taking it easy at home!!! Missing Huppy ofcos – cos he can go and I can not!!! It’s not like he’s gonna be away for ages – only 3 days and 2 nights!! I suppose you could say, when I go back to UK or take my holidays – it’s MUCH longer than that (mine can last from 10 days to a few months!!!) But the point is that it’s different when YOU get to go somewhere and you leave your loved ones behind!!! When you’re the one left behind – the feeling is not so great – if you get my drift!!! The excitement of going somewhere, the hustle and bustle, the new environment, the being with frens just overshadows the so-called leaving blues…. But anyways, told him to have fun and enjoy himself (cos I know I would, even though deep down I would miss him!!!)

So, what are my plans? Spend some quality time with Mama aka mother in law… Enjoy my own time and do my own things, meet frens and do a little Christmas shopping!… This year, I’m very late – usually I’m all done by Nov!!! hehe